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Tuesday, August 18th, 2009
How many times do we find ourselves in a situation, and think, “I deserve this. I brought it on myself,” and find ourselves ashamed to ask for help and strength from God?
I know I have felt this way. Because of failure, sin, or downright ignorance I get myself into a tight spot, and feel like I should not receive help from God because I knew better, or at least should have.
It is easier to accept that God is merciful and will forgive us, but it is sometimes hard to believe that He wants to aid us after our own mistakes.
That is when we need to realize and remember the compassion of God. Psalm 145:8 (NKJV) states, “The LORD is gracious and full of compassion, Slow to anger and great in mercy.” Also we find in Lamentations 3:22 (NKJV), “Through the LORD’s mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not.”
Just like God’s mercy, His compassion is greater than our sin, greater than our errors, greater than our flaws. In the story of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) the father not only receives his wayward son, and forgives him, but also begins to take care of every need. Even though this son had failed miserably, his father not only forgave him, looking at his repentant son through eyes of mercy, he began to provide for his son’s needs, looking at him through eyes of compassion. The wrongs had been forgiven. The only thing the father saw now was the need.
There is a very old song which comes to my mind, entitled “He Looked Bey0nd My Fault and Saw My Need.” This is the compassion of God. He forgives the fault, then deals with the need.
If you believe in God’s mercy, and have faith in His ability, then trust in His compassion in your time of need, even if it was caused by your own doing. He has not changed, and wants to meet you at that point of need.
Be blessed and have a great day.
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Friday, August 14th, 2009
There is a scripture on my mind, and I have been quoting it lately. It is from th fifty-first Psalm, a prayer of repentance made by David after sinning with Bathsheba. It states, “Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” (Verse 10, KJV)
This has not been on my mind because I have been involved in some unspeakable sin (doesn’t that make you feel relieved?) but because I have been examining my own heart, trying to see what is really there, wanting to surrender it fully to God.
To be truthful, I didn’t like everything I found there. I had to look at my own feelings and motives honestly, and was ashamed at the level of selfishness. Yes, I said selfishness.
Admittedly, like anyone else, I carry the emotional scars and baggage of past disappointments. Recently when something from the past was recalled and stirred up, the twinge of that disappointment’s pain was felt again. As I was thinking about the reasons why I could still feel this, I realized it was because I had from the very first been more focused on myself than anything else. I was primarily concerned with what I wanted, and when that did not materialize I was disappointed.
The reason it still hurt when I thought about it was because rather than surrender my desires to God, I let a sliver of bitterness get into me. I was like a pouting child in that sense because I was holding on to a hurt because I didn’t get my way. And it involved a great deal of selfishness in me that I did not want to face or admit to having.
That is not to say that we will not face disappointments even when we are pure of heart, or are not motivated by selfishness. Sometimes things do not work out, but Jesus said he would heal the brokenhearted (Luke 4:18).
However, sometimes we don’t always have the purest motives. We hope to gain something (other than the promises of God) so we go forth with a bad motive trying to do a good thing.
For example, we love, but only because we expect that love to be reciprocated in like manner. Most of us are guilty of this from time to time. We exhibit kindness to others, but do it with the motive of gaining their loyalty to us, not because we see a need and are moved by compassion.
Then we face disappointment when those expectations are not met. We become undone by our own impure motives.
So now I find myself praying daily that God will create a clean heart in me. I want to do the right thing for one reason - simply because it is right. I want my relationships to be based on exhibiting the love of Christ, not to fulfill a selfish need or desire for approval or affection. I want my good works and actions toward others to stem not from a selfish motive, but from allowing God to work through me, to show Himself through those actions, so that He can be glorified.
I hope you understand what I am feebly trying to express here. Thanks.
Be blessed, and have a great day.
Tags: Bathsheba, Bible, Christ, Christian, David, disappointment, faith, God, healing, heart, Jesus, life, Luke, motives, Psalms, relationships, selfishness
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Wednesday, August 12th, 2009
Hope is an important part of who we are. Without a feeling of hope, we wither away. Without hope, we give up. And, hope is the groundwork of our faith (Hebrews 11:1).
Where we place that hope is important. We all know the feeling of having hope destroyed, that feeling of being let down. Sometimes our hope is misplaced, and we are pinning our hopes to something that will fail.
Individuals, institutions, and situations ultimately will fail us. Everyone experiences loss when hope is placed in these things.
The one place that we can place our hope, the one in whom our hope truly rests, is God. In Psalm 38:15, it says, “For in You, O LORD, I hope; You will hear, O Lord my God.” (NKJV) When our hopes are placed elsewhere, we run the risk of great disappointment. When our hope is in God, we are hoping in someone who has been proven over and over, many times before. Nobody else, nothing else, has that track record.
When we have hoped elsewhere, and get let down, it is important to remember where our true hope lies. Psalm 42:5 states, “Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him For the help of His countenance.” (NKJV)
Our true hope is in the true Source of life, the Giver of what is good and perfect (James 1:17). When everything and everyone else fails, even that in which we believed strongly, and defended adamantly, fails, we know that we can return to our true hope. We need not be destroyed and despairing (”Why are you cast down, O my soul? “) but we can hope in believe in someone who wants to see our greatest hopes realized (”Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him For the help of His countenance.”)
Be blessed and have a great day.
Tags: Christ, Christian, church, disappointment, faith, God, Hebrews, hope, James, Jesus, life, Psalms
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Thursday, August 6th, 2009
A while back, I wrote a post called “Bearing the Burden.”
It addressed the commandment that we bear one another’s burdens, found in Galatians 6:2.
Lately in more than one conversation, I have heard comments concerning how this is often not the case. One of the things I have heard repeatedly is that people are often “busy” and don’t take time to involve themselves with the struggles of others in the family of God. They have their own families, their own struggles, their own things to deal with. On the surface, this seems to be a justifiable reason. The time is just not there to get overly involved with others. So folks do what they can; however, sometimes hurting people need more than a Facebook comment or a quickie email. If that is the best we can do, we are falling short.
In the parable of the sower (Mark 4:1-20) Jesus talked about the cares of this world choking out the word of God (Mark 4:19). We are commanded to bear one another’s burdens in order to fulfill the “law of Christ.” What is the simplest and purest description of the “law of Christ?” Jesus said in John 15:12, “This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” The way that He loved (and loves) us was with the ultimate expession of love, giving His life as a ransom for us. Sometimes we have to do what is not convenient, not pleasant, or not easy. We may have to sacrifice something. In fulfilling this commandment of Christ we are told to bear one another’s burdens. If we fail to do this, to hold to this conviction, we are failing to love.
Another thing I have heard is that people sometimes don’t reach out. This one sometimes comes from the fear of offending someone, not wanting to violate someone’s privacy, or even uncertainty about whether or not it is the right thing to do. In most cases, it is best to reach out. Sharing the love of God is never a mistake, even if someone has trouble receiving it. If we make a mistake trying to do what is right, God will forgive. Probably the offended party will as well. It reminds me of the old saying, “Do something, even if it’s wrong.” Fear of failure or making a mistake should never stop us from trying to be obedient to God. If He gave us the commandment, He is able to give us the grace to obey it properly, and He is able to make things work out if we miss the mark.
Whether we realize it or not, we are connected. We are also created for relationship with God and with others. Let’s get involved and loft one another up.
Be blessed and have a great day.
Tags: bear, Bible, burdens, Christ, Christian, commandment, Galatians, God, Jesus, John, law, life, love, Mark, relationships, struggle
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Friday, July 31st, 2009
Over the course of a lifetime,there are many events, good and bad, milestones and tribulation, highs and lows. We rejoice on the mountaintop, try to struggle through the valleys, and do the best we can to deal with all of it.
When we look at Romans 8:28 - “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” (NKJV) - we tend to forget that it is exactly that - all things. The good, the bad, and the otherwise (you probably thought I was going to say “ugly” for the last one, but no, “otherwise”.)
The good works together with the not-so-good. That is not so hard to grasp. We can all agree that the good things work for our good. After that, we grudgingly admit that the bad and the otherwise work for our good as well, even if we don’t see it. But somewhere, in the back of our mind, we think, “What good could possibly come of this?”
It just so happens that the next verse gives us an idea on that. Romans 8:29 states “For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers” (NIV) . God wants us to be like Jesus. Many of the things that look as if they can never be worked for good are the things that God will use in our lives to make us more like Jesus.
Life is full of highs and lows. We have good times and bad. If we submit ourselves to God, He can use all of it to make us more like Christ.
Be blessed, and have a great day.
Tags: Bible, Christ, Christian, God, Jesus, joy, life, Romans, tribulation
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Monday, July 27th, 2009
There is a verse in the Song of Solomon that I heard quoted a lot when I was a kid. It was being stated in a context that was very applicable, and the further I go in life the more I begin to see this application of the verse is really helpful.
The verse is found in Song of Solomon 2:15 - ” Catch us the foxes, The little foxes that spoil the vines, For our vines have tender grapes.” (NKJV)
I often hear people discussing their opinions on certain activities and behavior that they “have no problem with” or they “see nothing wrong with.” Without sounding too conservative or preachy, and without getting to the point of condemning specific actions, I would like to point out that some things do need to be examined in light of the effects that they have on our lives.
It is often found that the habits, activities, behavior, and attitudes in our lives can be counterproductive. Even though it may not be “wrong”, or “evil”, “wicked” or “sinful”, it is still an issue for us. It may be something small, even seemingly benign. No matter what it is, the litmus test for it is this: Is it robbing our lives of Godly fruit, and the blessings of God?
Just like the little fox in the aforementioned verse, it is destroying the vineyard. The fruit that should be there is not. We show no increase, no bounty, in what our lives produce. The blessings and the bounty dry up, and we begin to wonder why.
That is the situation that requires a self-examination, looking at our lives humbly and honestly, to see if some “little foxes” that we all too often choose to ignore are getting into the vineyard, tearing up the vines, and destroying the fruit that should be there.
Just because something is small and seemingly minor and unimportant does not mean that it is not destructive. The most successful thief is the one who can go about robbing unnoticed.
If we truly want good fruit and the blessings of God in our lives, we need to be on the lookout and catch the little foxes that enter our lives before they begin to do big damage.
Be blessed and have a great day.
Tags: Bible, blessings, Christ, Christian, church, faith, foxes, fruit, God, grapes, Jesus, life, Song of Solomon, vines, vineyard
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Thursday, July 23rd, 2009
There is an old Roger Miller song from way back called “Walkin’ in the Sunshine” (you can see the lyrics here.)
I am bringing this up in order to talk about Proverbs 17:22 : “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” Life is often tough, and it is difficult to maintain cheerfulness sometimes. That is why it is important for us to encourage each other. Even to occasionally make each other laugh, and enjoy that moment of stress release that comeswith it. Just as there is a proper time to mourn, there is a time to laugh (Ecclesiastes 3:4).
It is great to have friends around at times of stress and trouble. They often bring some cheer to an otherwise sorrowful time. I’m not saying that lightheartedness is appropriate in every circumstance, but often the cheerful attitude of another person is exactly what we need to influence our perspective, and keep us on the right track.
One of my friends in particular comes to mind (for sake of her privacy, we will just call her “Sunshine.”) Sunshine gave me a laugh this very morning, which I needed. We very often exchange lighthearted remarks, even when one of us or both of us are under stress. I would have to rate Sunshine as one of the most fun people I know (maybe the most fun.) Often we look upon such actions as small or trivial, when actually it sometimes goes a long way in helping someone else’s mood to improve, or just helping them get through a rough day.
Never underestimate the power of a kind word, or a cheerful attitude. They can make a lot of difference in someone’s world.
Be blessed and have a great day.
Tags: attitude, Bible, cheerful, Christ, Christian, Ecclesiastes, encouragement, friends, fun, God, heart, Jesus, laugh, life, merry, Proverbs, relationships, Roger Miller, stress, sunshine
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Monday, July 20th, 2009
There is a brief Olt Testament passage about one of David’s “mighty men of valor” that I have always enjoyed. It is found in 2 Samuel 23:11-12 :
“Next to him was Shammah son of Agee the Hararite. When the Philistines banded together at a place where there was a field full of lentils, Israel’s troops fled from them. But Shammah took his stand in the middle of the field. He defended it and struck the Philistines down, and the LORD brought about a great victory.” (NIV)
Here was Shammah with some men who were confronted by the Philistines in of all places, a field of lentils (basically, a pea patch.) The men with Shammah ran away, but he singlehandedly defended himself and the land and was given victory by the Lord.
In my imagination, I have always pictured Shammah as the type of fellow who looked at the enemy and said, “I came here to pick peas and whip Philistines. And I’m done pickin’ peas.”
Whether or not he was actually working in the field, whether or not he was really “pickin’ peas” is something I do not know. But I want to use that idea to say something else.
Sometimes life’s challenges come at unexpected moments. Sometimes the attack comes not on the battlefield, but in the pea patch. The tempation to run like the men with Shammah when caught unaware is great.
We have to be prepared to rise up at any moment. We need to have faith that the Lord will grant us victory if we stand our ground, and meet the challenge when and where it arises, just like Shammah.
When the time comes to rise up, we have to be able to say, “I’m done pickin’ peas. It’s go time. I didn’t expect this, but God is with me and I will obtain victory through Him.” (Check out Joshua 1:9 for a little encouragement.)
Jesus said in John 16:33, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (NIV) This promise lets us know that through Him, we can stand. We have His word on it (check out Romans 8:37 to drive the point home - “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.” [NIV])
When trouble comes, stand your ground. The peas can wait.
Be blessed, and have a great day.
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Friday, July 17th, 2009
The rending of the heart, a difficult thing, is something that we all face at some point. Although it is a difficult thing, it still serves the purposes of God.
In Psalm 34:18 it says, “The LORD is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.” Psalm 51:17 says, “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, A broken and a contrite heart— These, O God, You will not despise.” (Both preceding from NKJV)
Often the times when the heart is broken are the times that God uses to draw us nearer to Him. This is even more true (I believe) when the heart is aching of the things that move the heart of God, the evils of this present world, its injustices, the sufferings of others, and the like.
However it is still true whenever the heart is being wounded, or being crushed. God promises to be near to us. He promises to receive us in this state. However there is another promise. Just as these promises address the results of the rending of the heart, that is not the end of things.
In Luke 4:18, Jesus (reading from the book of Isaiah) was stating what He had been sent to do. One statement, in the very center of this verse, gives us the promise of what Jesus will do for the broken heart: “He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted.”
Just as God is brought close to us and we feel the need of Him and draw near to Him during the process of rending, we have the promise that the heart will be mended as well. 2 Corinthians 1:20 says, “For all the promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through us.” All of God’s promises are good and true. All that is required is our faith and obedience. God has, by His own word, made Himself responsible for doing the work.
I would encourage anyone who is in the position of having their heart broken, going through the rending of the heart, facing any sort of heartache, to not give up during the time of rending. Trust in the promise of God for the time of mending.
Be blessed, and have a great day.
Tags: Bible, broken, Christ, Christian, contrite, Corinthians, deliverance, God, heal, heart, heartache, Isaiah, Jesus, life, Luke, mending, Psalms, rending, suffering
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Wednesday, July 15th, 2009
There are many activities in life that bring us pleasure. There are many things that we enjoy, and that bring us a measure of satisfaction.
Then there are the things that we are truly passionate about. The causes, activities, ideas and ideals that we are committed to long after the fun part is over.
For example, I enjoy the writing that I do. Overall, I derive a great deal of pleasure form the activity. There are times, though, that I write about topics that are not so easy and pleasant to write about. When I write such things, it can be difficult, but I do it more form the conviction of my heart than for the pleasure of it.
Sometimes we can confuse pleasure with passion. We enjoy what we are doing, and we derive satisfaction, and we think that we are truly passionate about it; however, when the going gets tough, or we simply become bored, we find that we really didn’t have the passion we thought we did.
Spiritual passion is coupled with deep conviction. If you want to discover what you are truly passionate about, it is found in the depths of the heart. It is found alongside the deepest rooted convictions.
There are also times that pleasure is substituted for passion. Pleasure comes much more easily and doesn’t require conviction and sacrifice.
It is my fear that many people get so wrapped up in personal pleasure that they fail to discover their passion. 2 Timothy 3:1-5 deals with many things that will appear in the “last days” in peoples lives. One of these things (mentioned in verse 4) is that people will be “lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God”. The deep rooted conviction that brings about a passion for God becomes overridden by what pleases the carnal man.
I believe that Paul was speaking to Timothy about not so much the way nonbelievers would behave as he was the way the believers would behave. After all, the unbelievers always acted this way. Paul seems to be addressing an attitude that would be seen in the culture of believers who have lost their conviction and passion.
I can honestly say that I have been there. It is very easy to let conviction and passion slip away, then move on to allowing committment to erode, and finally compromise and settle into pleasure above passion. Our society, with its continual sensory bombardment, gives us every option we can think of to distract us. It is easy to forget that there was life before modern technology, and that we should not allow these things (which are wonderful tools for many purposes) to distract us, and to pummel our senses into numbness.
Hopefully we can all strengthen our convictions and allow God to restore the proper passion to our hearts when we miss the mark. The worst thing of all would be to become hedonistic, seeking only pleasure. This leads to a life of mediocrity in the best cases, and spiritual shipwreck in the worst.
Be blessed, and have a great day.
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