Posts Tagged ‘compassion’

Compassion

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009

How many times do we find ourselves in a situation, and think, “I deserve this. I brought it on myself,” and find ourselves ashamed to ask for help and strength from God?

I know I have felt this way.  Because of failure, sin, or downright ignorance I get myself into a tight spot, and feel like I should not receive help from God because I knew better, or at least should have.

It is easier to accept that God is merciful and will forgive us, but it is sometimes hard to believe that He wants to aid us after our own mistakes.

That is when we need to realize and remember the compassion of God.  Psalm 145:8 (NKJV) states, “The LORD is gracious and full of compassion,     Slow to anger and great in mercy.”  Also we find in Lamentations 3:22 (NKJV), “Through the LORD’s mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not.”

Just like God’s mercy, His compassion is greater than our sin, greater than our errors, greater than our flaws.  In the story of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) the father not only receives his wayward son, and forgives him, but also begins to take care of every need.  Even though this son had failed miserably, his father not only forgave him, looking at his repentant son through eyes of mercy, he began to provide for his son’s needs, looking at him through eyes of compassion.  The wrongs had been forgiven.  The only thing the father saw now was the need.

There is a very old song which comes to my mind, entitled “He Looked Bey0nd My Fault and Saw My Need.”  This is the compassion of God.  He forgives the fault, then deals with the need.

If you believe in God’s mercy, and have faith in His ability, then trust in His compassion in your time of need, even if it was caused by your own doing.  He has not changed, and wants to meet you at that point of need.

Be blessed and have a great day.

Validation

Monday, April 27th, 2009

Lately I have been thinking a lot about how we seek validation from others.

We look to our friends, family, co-workers and supervisors, our romantic interests, at times even total strangers.  It seems as humans we feel a very strong drive to be approved of by someone.  In the most extreme cases we seek approval from anyone and everyone (which can cause a person to do things and behave in ways that are not for the best).

When we fail to obtain that validation, we are left feeling like less of a person.  We feel as though we have less value, are somehow diminished as a human being (or, if you prefer to phrase it in terms of gender, less of a man/woman, as the case may be.  In my case it is “man”, for the record.)

However, it is important to remember that our value is not actually set by those around us.  It is set by none other than God Himself.

Jesus said that the same Father who watches over the sparrows is watching over us, and values us much greater (Matthew 10:31).  Nothing  can separate us from His love (Romans 8:38-39).  In his mercy and grace we find the validation and approval that we seek, we find compassion and forgiveness when we err, and immeasurable love, totally (as the title of this blog) unquantified, beyond comprehension and infinite.

Even when forsaken by friends, even family, God is there (Psalm 27:10) ready to take up our cause, ready to take us into His presence and fellowship.

Does that mean it ceases to upset us, at times frustrate us and hurt us, when we feel rejected by others?  Not likely.  Jesus wept over Jerusalem over the rejection of Him by the people there.  Likewise, He understands our pain.  And, likewise, He cares.  However, we can have the constant hope that when we come to Him, His arms will be open.

Have a blessed day!


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